Bless this Child

     There is a tiny book entitled To Bless a Child written by Roy G. Pollina.  Fr. Pollina encourages parents to start the tradition of speaking a blessing to your children. It is an endearing concept; a tradition well worth establishing. The book gives step by step instructions on crafting your own blessings.

      To speak a blessing over your child is to tell them not just that you have good wishes for them but that you are, in that moment, entrusting them to God's care, that you are speaking to God about your dear child.  What a powerful message this sends to your child. It tells your child that you believe that God is here and part of his or her day. It tells your child that you seek from God the very best for them. It reminds them of God's story, God's love and their place in the family of Christ.

     My children are in college and high school. I felt self conscious when I put my hand on my daughter's forehead as she prepared to step out of the car in the dark hours of the morning. Quietly I said," Lord Jesus grant my child peace and confidence on this day." She looked at me and said, "That sounds like something the Pope would say." Then she smiled , kissed my cheek and stepped out of the car. Maybe she thinks I am nuts, but maybe she was reminded of the depth of my love and God's love for her.